How to Get your Ex Back – Marriage Advice – How not to Turn your Husband or Wife into an Ex
In life, we always question ourselves when we undergo a severe or life changing trial. We question our capabilities to surpass the trials, we question our motives for why we are undergoing such trial, and we even question those who are with us with the trials, like family, friends or even loved one. When a marriage is on the line, no matter how grave the trial may be, it is not an exception to being questioned. In this day and age, people resolve marriage problems by ending them, as opposed to fixing it. My grandfather would remind me that back in their days, when something was broken, they didn’t replace it. They fixed it. This also applied to their marriage lives.
Is there a way for married people today from becoming each other’s ex’s?
When we find ourselves questioning our marriage, this would be the most daunting task that we have to face sooner or later. Marriage is the most fragile of all relationships, something that we cannot afford to lose, even for the most petty of all break up reasons and scenarios. Arguments in a marriage can often lead us to this question “Why did I get married in the first place?” and we often get different answers from the one that we gave before we got married? The tendency is that people often overlook the real reason why they got married in the first place. The love that made them get married slowly diminishes and fades with each passing unsolved argument, leading eventually to a break up point. Breaking up in a marriage is not an option, nor should it be encouraged. Yes, we all know the current trend of how people get divorced easily in other countries and this is partly the reason why marriage is now becoming a trend as well because there is an easy way out. The real essence of marriage is lost nowadays, thinking of it as a commodity or trend and not a lifetime obligation of loving your partner.
It’s sad when married couples break up for a variety of reasons. Engaged couples or dating couples are sometimes expected to break up for even the pettiest reasons but when married couples break up for the same reason, it’s tragic. Of course, with the current lifestyle, I wouldn’t be surprised at the alarming increasing rate of divorce in some countries. Breaking up should be the last thing or heck shouldn’t even be contemplated on when arguing with your husband or wife. There is always a way to fix things in a civilized and proper manner and if things can still be fixed, like marriage, then it should be worth fixing.